1998: when I first revisited my alma mater in Jaipur with Rita |
I celebrate my 35h birthday in Delhi, at a surprise party organised by my classmates Rita, Mrinal, Kalpana, Betty and their precious young ones. That's what being friends 24/7, 365, did for us. |
WHAT does my old
school mean to me? A school where I spent eight years from 1963 to 1970, when
our batch took the I.S.C. exam. Beyond textbooks and teachers, beyond P.T. and
performances, beyond inter-house competitions and a uniform we were proud of,
what did it all add up to?
Looking back, M.G.D.
proves to be a way of life, a mélange of memories, a distilled spirit that
impacted each of us. How would I sing of M.G.D. today? Here are some
off-the-cuff impressions ~
~ MGD is… Her Highness
Gayatri Devi, perfect in peach chiffon and pearls, a gracious image we all sought to emulate ever since.
Our first saris ever were usually chiffons in rose-tinted hues!
~ MGD is… Miss L.G.
Lutter, a woman who never scolded a student, a teacher, a matron or a bai
ever. Or not within my hearing. A principal who was, unusually, personally
interested in each child. That mattered more to us than the Padma Shri she
later received.
~ MGD is… Miss Emma,
who fed us on pooris and aloo curry, roast mutton and Russian salad,
vanilla ice-cream out of a wooden churn (as much as we could put away). And the
unforgettable handful of sweets or the lollipop we could help ourselves to from
a great big tin, when there were no oranges after lunch.
I was 8, a little older than this child, when I first stepped into Prep House hostel |
Sprinting barefoot in a 100 metre dash, at about 13. |
~ MGD is… a school
that sought out the special talent in each student, and nurtured it with care.
It’s a vital reason why I became a journalist and a writer. And why it didn’t
leave me speechless when I met Ute Krauze, a best-selling German children’s
author, in Berlin
~ to find she had her old MGD rough notebook with her first tentative stories
between its covers!
~ MGD is… celebrating
Janamastami with a cradle scene and going caroling from house to house. And
never discriminating against your classmates because of their religion.
~ MGD is… the weekly
Application and Merit Medal that recognized that the class-toppers did not
necessarily try the hardest.
~ MGD is… about
feeling proud when our head girl, Betty Thomas, made it to the Rajasthan hockey
team. And learning that merit matters more than money.
It was on a bed like these that I slept that first night away from my parents |
As part of a folk dance group to welcome Miss Lutter home, at 10 |
With my classmates in Std. 6 or J3, with our class teachers, Mrs Baury and Miss Rizvi |
~ MGD is… about a
superb production of ‘Hiawatha’ to mark the school’s silver jubilee,
with my future Indira Bhavan room-mate, Neelam Deshpande, as the child hero.
Every time school talk surfaces, I miss her deeply, now that she is no
more.
~ MGD is… about
Dussehra excursions to Bikaner, Jodhpur, Beawar, Udaipur, sharing mattresses on
the floor with friends and glasses of hot badam milk in palaces we never dreamt
we would step into.
~ MGD is… about
arriving at Jaipur station past midnight with the Bombay party (it wasn’t Mumbai then!), and
finding steaming cups of coffee or cocoa awaiting us, before a bus took us to
our hostels.
~ MGD is… the staff in
funny costumes and make-up, performing at assembly after their outing on
Teacher’s Day. And the thrill of being a head girl or teacher for that
transient space in time.
The central courtyard at MGD, where we attended assembly and played games |
With our favourite English teacher, Bibby Jay, in front of the House of Science |
~ MGD is… being a
library prefect in Std. 9 or S3, helping to select books, and reading through
as many as I could before they were officially loaned out.
~ MGD is… about
reading my fragile first poems out at assembly, knock-kneed with nervousness…
and being commissioned to write one for a decorated scroll when Padmini Devi
married Bhavani Singh in the distant past!
~ MGD is… about
winning the sub-junior athletics trophy because I was tinier and lighter than
my classmates.
With Miss Nanda and Mrs Mathews in the staff room, when I returned to school 28 years after we left |
Rita and I spend a sentimental moment in front of a bust of Miss Lutter in 1998 |
~ MGD is… meeting up
with Jyotsna in London, Kumkum, Indu and Rita in
Jaipur, Renuka in Bangalore
~ and knowing we belong to the same family of feeling.
~ MGD is… a little
silver badge that brings tears to my eyes because of all that it evokes in my
life.
~ MGD is… about
reaching out to a group of young MGD-ians in Bangalore, who’ve just relocated to college
here (including Kumkum’s daughter Alankrita) ~ and singing the school song
together!
I remember the Holi celebrations in school playing with mud,
ReplyDeleteThe Silver jubilee celebrations in which everyone took part
The lovely special brunches served during our ISC preparations and during the final exams
The Eucalyptus oil drops given for preventi,on of the Pandemic Flu,
The morning PT followed by a glass of milk,
The exotic Sweet dishes made by Miss Emma for Dinner, the Tuck shop of Mr Chelaram
The best has been the comradeship developed with our classmates which still exists
I recall some of those, too. Thanks, Kumkum!
ReplyDeleteI love the way you have structured this one aditi..so much said so simply..
ReplyDeletewill read the other articles too, many of which i have read before but will revisit...love the blog and being part of it too
Hi Aditi,
ReplyDeleteI am trying to make contact with Rita who in MH in my year .
Can you you put me in touch.
I canced on your blog which I enjoy reading and then found an article with a photo of Rita.
Thank you
Vasamta